First post for 2010 - in God we trust

3rd January 2010

Hi my friends, As I sit here reflecting on advances and set backs over the past couple of years, I wonder what the next one has in store for us. For my oncology friends who are sleeping on hospital chairs in their children's cancer wards and watching their children whilst facing their deepest fears, may you be able to sleep peacefully for a moment today.... May the beeping machines and chimes not wake you unnecessarily my precious friends. For Irma, Jan, Voilet, Melissa, Sandra, Wendy, Lauren, Dawn and all those coping with the recent or not so recent loss of a child, may you find a measure of peace knowing that your baby is no longer in physical pain and that they live on in your hearts and the hearts of those who were blessed to have known them in this lifetime. For those who rest living between MRI scans awaiting MRI verdicts & the resulting sentences, may you be able to find a little time to treasure the good moments and not let life pass you by as you worry. For those in remission, (Jordi, Lefa, Reef and Darrien), let them savour all the life they can and let them live life to the fullest! To my Jeddy, my miracle son, You are my prince, my gentle warrior and my very best friend. I am blessed beyond words to be your mommy, gifted with the joy of your presence in my life. Five years have flown by and I can only pray that Jesus blesses us with so many more years together. Jed you are gorgeous, I cherish our moments together, whether watching cartoons or figuring out a new action figure.... Being with you is knowing intrinsically the speed of time, and my helplessness to slow in down even for a minute. I need only watch you sleep to feel a sting in my eye - I love you Jeddy and I thank God that he has brought you thus far! Please pray for Ithuteng's mommy Violet, he got his angel wings on New Years eve..... no bone marrow match was found and we lost a very special child who we all loved dearly. The attached photo was taken of Jed and Ithuteng after Jed's appendix operation - the boys loved to swop Playstation games and run around the ward. I know Ithuteng has left a huge crack in my already broken heart.! Please pray for Jed's port to give blood, the port has somehow blocked and the doctor's can't use it for blood tests. As you know Jed goes weekly for chemo, blood tests and if required tranfusions so his port is essential ....On Monday he was "pricked" twice - his veins are not very good. Please pray for Jaryd who has major surgery on his leg on the 14th of January 2010 - this operation is to clear him of cancer (Ewings Sarcoma) and the surgeons are confident they can save his leg. Pray for strength for Belinda and Jason as they wait outside the theatre - it can be a very hard wait; time freezes...... Jaryd's counts are still very low so we need to pray that he starts eating and gains some much needed weight before his operation to give his body a boost! And lastly, thank you for praying for us, for believing with me and for being my strength. Thank you for supporting me with words of encouragement. Each e-mail and sms has been cherished and appreciated! There is no way I would still be sane without you and I ask that you please continue to walk with me on this journey; with Jesus leading the way!

Love and hugsBonni, Jed10 and Vusi